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11/4/2009 8:59:00 PM Email this articlePrint this article 
Let's revel in our rainbow
Too often we hear of Jews who are black, Asian, Hispanic or somehow just don't resemble what most people think of as typically Jewish say they feel unwelcome in typical synagogues.

Some may be Jews by choice, some may have been adopted, some might be the children of interracial relationships, some may even have Jewish families that go back generations. Whatever the roots of that Judaism, all should be considered just as Jewish as those with two Ashkenazi parents.

After all, we Jews have long been multiracial and multicultural. Just think of the Jews from Ethiopia, from Yemen (60 of whom the U.S. State Department have resettled in the United States in recent days), Jews living in India and the Jews of Kaifeng, China, some of whose descendants just recently moved to Israel.

We should appreciate the dynamics, cultures, foods and traditions that multicultural families bring to the Jewish community.

Instead, however, many of those families today don't feel comfortable in traditional synagogues and Jewish groups.

That's why it's good to see them not giving up on Judaism, but finding places of their own. This week, for example, we report on a new multicultual group, Chaverim L'Shalom, which held its first Shabbat dinner Friday at Sixth & I Historic Synagogue in the District.

On the other hand, it's a bit disturbing that those forming such groups feel that their needs are different from those of other Jews in the area and can't be met in existing synagogues and chavurot.

What is it about our traditional Jewish synagogues and groups that makes so many people -- whether gay, single or part of interracial families -- feel that they are not welcome?

It's time for Jews to look inward, remember when we were not welcome in certain clubs or neighborhoods and extend an open hand to Jews of all sorts.

We already have too many political and denominational divisions within Judaism; let's not add color and culture to that. The Jewish community is a rainbow of people, and our institutions should reflect those multicolors.

We all will be richer for it.

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Reader Comments


Posted: Friday, November 20, 2009
Article comment by: Abigail Hirsch

Our Reconstructionist congregation has been very welcoming to Jews of all backgrounds and sexual orientations.Also Jewish renewal synagogues are more inclusive and they are a good place to startexploring and participating in Jewish activities and education.

Posted: Friday, November 13, 2009
Article comment by: Sue Miller

Bravo! How refreshing a viewpoint! If only it were so down in the trenches of Reform temples. I converted to Judaism in 2003 after several years of serious consideration and exploration. While many individuals of my brother and sister Jews have welcomed me as the individuals they are, I have also received puzzled looks and comments about how I don't look Jewish (I'm Irish) teasing in front of others because I don't like borscht and latkes, with comments that one can't be Jewish without liking various foods that go with Ashkenazic ethnicities turning away from a conversation with me if I mention that I converted in the past absolutely nothing for me as a gay person, only an emphasis on straight couples and the Jewish education of their children. I came, and was not treated well. So I didn't come back. I continue to light Shabbat candles, say the prayers, and apply Jewish standards and ethics to my everyday life. But until much more than a few individuals get out of the narrow mindset I have experienced, I will not return.

Posted: Friday, November 13, 2009
Article comment by: Belle

Interesting that you mentioned single in this article as my daughter, who is single, who lives in Washington, last year contacted 3 Reform synagogues in the District to inquire about their synagogues. Not one sent her information, not one had anyone contact her, not one followed up in any way. I guess the synagogues in the District have all the members they need. She had said to me that she needed more Jews in her life so contacted the synagogues. Guess what? She isn't connected in any way to the Jewish community. She has no family down there and spends many of the Jewish holidays on her own. Often working as she is a social worker and she can always work.
Several years ago she went to Adas Israel synagogue which is near where she lives and was taking a basic Judaism course. She asked a question and the woman teaching the course, who was a rabbi, said to her, "Why are you asking that question, you're Jewish." She never went back.


Posted: Sunday, November 08, 2009
Article comment by: Julie Fisher

Thank you for your thoughtful editorial on inclusiveness in the Jewish community. As a parent of two children who are Hispanic, this topic is one that is close to my heart. I know that as my children continue to grow and deepen their involvement in a range of Jewish institutions, I will need to keep a close eye on both their feelings of comfort, and each institution's ability to be inclusive of Jews who are not of Ashkenazic descent. Your editorial poses important questions that I hope will be embraced and explored by area Jewish institutions.

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