Obituaries for July 19, 2018


Richard Siegel, educator who co-edited ‘The Jewish Catalog,’ is dead at 70

Melanie Kaye/Kantrowitz
Photo Leslie Cagan via Facebook/JTA

Richard Siegel, an educator who advocated for Jewish culture and arts and co-edited the seminal “Jewish Catalog” series of guides to “do-it-yourself” Judaism, died July 12 in Los Angeles. He was 70 and had been battling cancer for two years, according to a friend and colleague, Barry Holtz, a professor of Jewish education at The Jewish Theological Seminary.
Siegel was the director emeritus of the Zelikow School of Jewish Nonprofit Management at Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Los Angeles, which trains communal professionals for work in Jewish organizations.

For 28 years he worked at the National Foundation for Jewish Culture (renamed the Foundation for Jewish Culture), and served as its executive director from 1978 to 2006. According to HUC, he created the Jewish Endowment for the Arts and Humanities to provide funding for artists, scholars and cultural institutions, and initiated the Fund for Jewish Documentary Filmmaking, the Fund for New Play Commissions in Jewish Theater and the 6-Points Fellowships in the Arts.

In 1973, along with Michael Strassfeld and Sharon Strassfeld — fellow members of Havurat Shalom, a lay-led congregation in Somerville, Mass. — he published what became known as “The First Jewish Catalog.” Its subtitle was “A Do-It-Yourself Kit,” and it offered instructions on everything from making a seder to crafting a tallit to protesting for Soviet Jewry. Its target audience was young Jews who wanted to return to the traditions of their grandparents but weren’t exactly sure how.
Inspired by the “The Whole Earth Catalog,” a source of “tools and ideas” for the hippie generation, Siegel and the Strassfelds found contributors who, like them, boasted excellent Jewish and even rabbinic educations.

The book became an instant best-seller for the Jewish Publication Society. It and two subsequent volumes were credited with empowering young Jews who felt alienated from synagogue life and popularizing an ethos of pluralism and gender egalitarianism. Critics objected to the very elements that its fans considered its strengths: that it leaned too heavily on the ethos of the 1960s counterculture and gave too little respect to the major Jewish denominations and institutions.

“We did have a legitimate critique of American Jewish life, and we were offering some new ideas for its reinvigoration,” Siegel recalled in 2015 in an address to HUC’s graduates. “To be clear, we weren’t just pointing out the Jewish community’s faults and admonishing it to change its priorities. As activists, we were working to make the change happen, to ‘be the change we wanted to see,’ to use a contemporary aphorism.”

As his generation of young activists themselves became part of the Jewish establishment, Siegel turned to promoting Jewish culture and training professionals for work in Jewish institutions.

In his 2015 speech, he said, “Now more than ever, Jewish organizations, whether startups or legacy institutions, need business-savvy, Jewishly educated and visionary professional leaders to help them address both the enormous challenges and significant opportunities facing the Jewish world and the broader society.”

In recent years he worked with his wife, Rabbi Laura Geller, on a forthcoming book titled “Good at Getting Older: A Practical Catalog Grounded in Jewish Wisdom,” to be published by Behrman House.

His other books included “The Jewish Almanac” (1981) and “The Writer in the Jewish Community: An Israel-North America Dialogue” (1993).

Siegel also was one of the founding members of Minyan Maat, a lay-led congregation that meets at Ansche Chesed, an egalitarian, Conservative synagogue on Manhattan’s Upper West Side.

“Richard Siegel was a transformative force in the Jewish world through his commitment to strengthening professional education, enhancing Jewish culture and advancing contemporary Jewish identity formation,” the Zelikow School said in a statement announcing his death.

Raised in Pittsburgh, Siegel received a master’s degree in contemporary Jewish studies (now the Hornstein Program) at Brandeis University in 1972 and another master’s in Jewish history from the Jewish Theological Seminary in 1974. His master’s thesis at Brandeis was subsequently developed into “The Jewish Catalog.”

He was the Hillel director, its first, at the State University of New York at Stony Brook from 1974 to 1978, where he founded the Long Island Jewish Arts Festival.

He is survived by his wife, the senior rabbi emerita of Temple Emanuel of Beverly Hills, and their children, Andy, Ruth, Josh and Elana.

—JTA News and Features


Melanie Kaye/Kantrowitz, activist for racial equality, dies at 73

Melanie Kaye/Kantrowitz. Photo Leslie Cagan via Facebook/JTA

Melanie Kaye/Kantrowitz, a writer and progressive activist who was the founding director of Jews for Racial and Economic Justice, has died.

Kaye/Kantrowitz died July 9 from Parkinson’s disease, her partner, Leslie Cagan, wrote on Facebook. She was 73.
The essayist and poet, a Brooklyn, N.Y., native, said her Jewish upbringing helped motivate her activism. Kaye/Kantrowitz published essays and poems on issues including anti-Semitism, the intersection of Judaism, gender and race, and relations between Jews and African Americans. She was active in the LGBTQ community and wrote about her identity as a lesbian Jew. As the founding director of JFREJ in 1990, she fought against racism and economic injustice.

“She was a brilliant feminist poet, essayist, and lesbian activist who fought tirelessly against racism & antisemitism,” JFREJ wrote in a Facebook post on July 10. “She sparked our collective, radical imagination and opened our minds to an expanse of possibilities.”

She was born Melanie Kaye and later added Kantrowitz to honor her Jewish roots. Her parents had anglicized their last name from Kantrowitz before she was born.
In a public Facebook post, Cagan said Kaye/Kantrowitz had fought Parkinson’s disease for years, but more recently the disease had started to affect her mind in addition to her body. Cagan said that despite the passing of Kaye/Kantrowitz, she was “filled with joy knowing how many people she touched.”

“As a friend, as a co-worker, as a teacher, as a writer — an incredible writer — as a sister and comrade and co-conspirator in the struggle for justice and peace, Melanie’s presence was often soft but always strong,” Cagan wrote. “Her moral compass was always set in the right direction, and she always had the courage to speak out, to take action, and to bring others along with her.”

—JTA News & Features

Wayne A. Edisis
Wayne A. Edisis, of Washington, died July 4. He was the beloved husband of Adrienne Taptich Edisis; devoted father of Nathaniel and Aaron Edisis; loving brother of Robyn Edisis. Services entrusted to Sagel Bloomfield Danzansky Goldberg Funeral Care.

Ciss Kolker
Ciss Kolker, of Washington, died July 11. Kolker attended Beaver College (Arcadia University today), outside of Philadelphia and later attended George Washington University, where she was presented her diploma by President Harry Truman. She spent her career as a party consultant in greater Washington. Kolker is survived by her beloved husband of 73 years, Bernie Kolker; sons Gary Kolker (Nancy) and Jeff Kolker (Pamela); daughter Tracy Kolker Ochsman (Bruce); grandchildren Tom, Kelly, Courtney, Samantha, Jade, Paris (Ben ), January (Andy), Kate, Steven, Chase and Lion. She was predeceased by her son Steve Kolker and brothers David and Leonard Rapoport. Contributions may be made to the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital (

Robert A. Jacobs
Robert A. Jacobs, of Annapolis, died July 10. He was the beloved husband of Lenora Jacobs; devoted father of Verna (Joel) Tiegen, Stephen (Nicki) Jacobs and Vivian (Ken) Koroknay. Also survived by grandchildren Leah, Anne, Sharon, Brian and Drew; and great-grandchildren Luca, Elisa and Cameron. Jacobs was predeceased by his brother, Lester Jacobs. Contributions may be made to Friends of The Jewish Chapel ( or Temple Bat Yam, 11036 Worcester Hwy, Berlin, MD 21811.
Services entrusted to Sagel Bloomfield Danzansky Goldberg Funeral Care.


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